It isn’t work people are afraid of, if they are able to do
some, it’s the idea of being forced.
Let’s substitute work for sex, for a moment. Sex is supposed to be
something freely given, an expression of love or lust between two people. For others, perhaps those who’ve been
in a relationship a long time, the spark may have disappeared and partners may
feel it a bit of a tedious duty, like others feel about having been in their
job for too long, but nevertheless, they go through the motions, for other
benefits. Those benefits in a
marriage, could be for security, safety, companionship. The same could be said of work, the job
may be stale, but there are benefits such as security, companionship, and of
course, there may be financial benefits.
Maybe there aren’t, maybe the money isn’t worth it, just as in the relationship,
maybe it is dead, and time to move on.
But none of these cross a line. But forced work, is no difference to forced sex. Forced sex
has a name. Rape. If a person
doesn’t consent to have sex, then it is force. The raped person will feel abused, worthless, guilt, shame,
devalued, angry, powerless. Long term effects may include anxiety attacks,
panic attacks, agoraphobia, depression, suicidal thoughts and attempts. This is
what happens when people lose control of their lives, lose their autonomy, their right to say who
they sleep with and when. It is
now agreed that in a civilised society that this should be a person’s right, it
affords dignity, self-worth and self-respect. But hang on: shouldn’t this apply
to work as well? Work should be a
choice: something that affords dignity, self-worth and self-respect, shouldn’t
it? We’ve all heard the government rhetoric but on the sly they are using
compulsion and force. They aren’t
the stereotype rapists who jump at you and overpower you in a dark alley. They
are much too clever. They use subtle language, blackmail, power and authority
to get you into bed against your will.
The results are the same and they are devastating. They take away your
autonomy, your ability to act freely, your capacity for choice, your capacity for
creativity, your capacity to make a simple decision. They incapacitate you, in fact.
Well said Moggy, couldn't agree more.
ReplyDeleteIt's a society that has accepted that people shouldn't be forced into relationships so why is it OK to force them to attend certain buildings and make relationships with work colleagues and do activities that they haven't personally chose, these can be just as devastating mentally as with an abusive relationship, with workplace bullying leading to stress, anxiety and even suicide. All use of force is wrong not just the select few things frowned upon, well said we need to wake up to a more enlightened way of thinking.
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